Which MBTI Types Find Love Easiest? A mbti compatibility Guide

“What MBTI type can find a suitable partner most easily?”

 For some, finding the right match seems effortless, while for others, it feels like a never-ending challenge. In our previous issue, we analyzed the “hardest to pursue” MBTI personality types. According to a survey of over 85,000 people by a U.S. psychology fan site, we uncovered the difficulty for different personalities in finding like-minded individuals. Here is the user data from the survey:

• Gender: 74% female, 23% male, 3% chose not to answer.
• Age: 57% were 35-64 years old, 16% were 65+, 10.63% were 25-34, 8.36% were 18-24, and 6.27% were 0-17.

The Easiest Types to Find a "Like-Minded" Partner

According to this survey, when asked, “Do you agree that it’s easy to find like-minded people?” The types most likely to say “yes” were:

1. 56.3% of ESFP (Entertainer)

2. 55.1% of ESTP (Entrepreneur)

3. 52.2% of ENFP (Campaigner)

4. 51.2% of ESFJ (Consul)

5. 50.1% of ESTJ (Executive)

6. 44.4% of ENTJ (Commander)

7. 41.6% of ENFJ (Protagonist)

8. 40.1% of ISFJ (Defender)

TOP 1: ESFP (Entertainer) Personality

ESFPs are always on the lookout for fun, opportunities, adventure, and friendship. This personality is often called a “Jack-of-all-trades,” and if they are truly willing, even the most boring routine can be turned into a spectacular game.

They possess a captivating energy that attracts people, and their humor, optimism, and enthusiasm often make them the life of the party.

ESFP types need a partner who appreciates the fun, humor, and vitality they bring to a relationship. Stay relaxed, easy-going, and add fun and adventure to the relationship. For more about this, check out our insights on **our personality chemistry** and how different types interact.

TOP 2: ESTP (Entrepreneur) Personality

ESTPs are often called the “daredevils,” seeking thrills and always on the lookout for new adventures. This helps them connect with a wide variety of people.

Due to their spontaneity, charm, and zest for life, they generally find it easier to connect with others than some other personality types.

ESTPs need a partner who respects their choices and their spontaneous nature, and their tendency to take (healthy) risks and try new things.

TOP 3: ENFP (Campaigner) Personality

ENFPs tend to have a wide range of interests, allowing them to cast a wider net when looking for like-minded people. They are known for their friendly, open-minded nature and infectious enthusiasm.

Emotional intimacy is crucial for ENFPs—they want to be able to be themselves around their partner. ENFPs need a great deal of trust to share their inner selves with others. This need for deep connection is a key part of their **mbti functions**.

TOP 4: ESFJ (Consul) Personality

ESFJs are often loving and energetic, which tends to attract people. Many ESFJs are actively involved in traditional and community activities—whether it’s holiday celebrations, church groups, or local volunteer events.

ESFJ types will go the extra mile for their partners, and they hope to be with someone who does the same. Show your care by paying attention to their needs and the little details that make them smile. For more on this topic, explore **why certain mbti types are hard to be single** and their relationship dynamics.

TOP 5: ESTJ (Executive) Personality

If you need something, ESTJs are often the first to lend a hand and the first to expect you to follow through. They won’t play games with unreliable friendships or overly emotional drama. Be sincere, proactive, and follow through.

Loyalty is crucial for ESTJ personalities. They need to know that the people around them have their best interests at heart and will stand with them through adversity.

TOP 6: ENTJ (Commander) Personality

ENTJs are often natural leaders and have a practical attitude, but this doesn’t mean socializing is always smooth sailing. Their direct communication style and focus on big-picture goals can intimidate or alienate those who seek more empathetic or light-hearted conversations.

Many ENTJs report feeling isolated when their abstract interests and high-level discussions go unanswered, because the people around them prefer small talk, everyday topics, or discussions about emotions and relationships rather than any conceptual issues. This highlights a key aspect of their **mbti letters meaning**.

 

Cautious Campaigner: YAEL (ENFP-T)

I have a strong desire for a loyal relationship because I love passionately. I’m not talking about superficial physical contact, but dedication and giving. I realize I can’t be casual because I care too much, and ending a relationship is almost always difficult. I have to fight with my inner emptiness.

Cautious Entertainer: Octavia (ESFP-T)

I enjoy having someone with me to experience life and have adventures. When I have an exciting, passionate idea or plan, I hope someone can help me and not tell me all the things that could go wrong or that are unrealistic. I don't like to be tied down; I find it difficult to accept people who are reserved. I like to have fun and be silly and uninhibited. I also like spontaneity. I need a good listener. My love language is physical touch, but I don't know if that applies to all ESFPs.

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